Tube feeding

I think this was assigned by the moderators to the wrong topic. I'm reposting to get it here.

God Bless our Holy Father Pope Benedict XVI.

Vatican’s 1980 Declaration on Euthanasia. According to the declaration, euthanasia is ‘an action or an omission which of itself or by intention causes death, in order that all suffering may in this way be eliminated. Euthanasia’s terms of reference, therefore, are to be found in the intention of the will and in the methods used.’

The obligation to provide the ‘normal care due to the sick in such cases’ (Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, ‘Iura et Bona,’ p. IV) includes, the use of nutrition and hydration… Death by starvation or dehydration is, in fact, the only possible outcome as a result of their withdrawal. In this sense it ends up becoming, if done knowingly and willingly, true and proper euthanasia by omission

In the Encyclical Evangelium Vitae, "by euthanasia in the true and proper sense must be understood an action or omission which by its very nature and intention brings about death, with the purpose of eliminating all pain"; such an act is always "a serious violation of the law of God, since it is the deliberate and morally unacceptable killing of a human person" (n. 65).�

Peace and Good,
Your Brother in Christ (Franciscan Tertiary of Mary, Mother of the Most Blessed Sacrament)

A young friend of mine came from a family afflicted by Huntingtons, which usually develops very slowly. She was fatherless, and her grandfather had died of the disease in his fifties. Her mother died at age 36 when C was 12. By the time C was 20 she was "unwell," and the doc suggested ME. Anyway, she couldn't continue her degree course and languished at home for some 5 years before Huntingtons was diagnosed. In the following years she watched two uncles die, one after 25 years illness, the other had the disease but had the good fortune to have a heart attack after 20 years. C herself was in the care of her grandmother - 50 years her senior!

Eventually she went into residential care where she continued to be visited by her friends. She refused medication which might have impaired her mental acuity. She gradually weakened and the time came when she could not feed by mouth. She opted for a tube in the stomach - she thought this was the right thing to do. So she eked out her days in bed, unable to do much at all once she could no longer stuff envelopes for her political party. She received a tiny morsel of the host on her tongue, and gradually she lost the power of intelligible speech. Even those who had known her since childhood and visited 5 or more times a week could not make out what she was saying. After some years of this she managed to get advice from her confessor; was she obliged to continure with the feeding tube? He said no, not if she did not wish to and realised the result of deciding to stop. She opted to stop, took three weeks to die but eventually died peacefully and gratefully aged 38. She was fully sane and entrusting herself to God to whom she'd always belonged. We, her relations and friends, could not feel sorrow. More than two hundred people of all ages attended her requiem, including her grandmother who had buried husband, daughter, two sons and a granddaughter, as well as sundry in-laws, all dying from this ghastly disease.

Luckily for C her confessor wasn't one to stick by the letter of the law.

Sorry for the length of this post, but the topic just brings her back so vividly.
Englishwoman

I'm told that 30% of medicare cost are incurred in a the last WEEK of life.
How crazy is that?

Love, John

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Bless you Poetman, Frannie and Col,

And Thank You.

I cared for my Aunt the last two years of her life. When she had a serious stroke. She refused the Tubes. She came home and had me put her bed in the living room and for ten days in the company of her extended family and many visitors, made her strong and heroic exit from our world. Always determine and very willful. She made her exit as she lived her life. With a marked determination, she taught us a wonderful lesson of will power. She lived and died behind her decisions. She was forever a woman of impeccable integrity. And she demanded the same from those around her. She would sidestep no issue and met everything head-on.

May God bless her and all of our departed until that time when we may rejoice together again. Amen.

The more we discover how much we are Loved by God, the more we want to do God's Will

Both my parents died in Catholic institutions (one hospital, one hospice) and neither had a feeding tube. Prolonging their agony would have been unconscionable.

Thanks for this thread poetman. I personally think these end of life issues deserve all the debate the beginning of life issues recieve. And it seems to me the idea of 'quality of life' has had no place in most theological or moral discussions on either end of the life spectrum, and I wonder why that is, because 'quality of life' is certainly debated in other medical situations.

I too wonder if the Church will continue this somewhat absolutist stand when technology is capable of keeping us 'alive' forever. When does intervening on the side of life cross the boundary and become prevention from eternal life with Jesus?